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I've been writing away at the beach and yesterday I was able to finish a book that I started 3 years ago. Originally the plan was to sell the book on the Internet but I decided to just give it away. I believe that this book can be a tremendous help for anyone struggling with being able to forgive a spouse or loved one who cheated on them. The book offers cutting edge thought leadership on helping the betrayed partner non-reactively own their own issues, not be dominated by spiraling feelings of bitterness and jealousy and grow in their efforts to resolve family of origin wounds. If people in those situations don't shift from a victim perspective then all the books in the world and all the therapy in the world isn't going to help them.

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Here are some quotes from the book....

"I am so sorry that this has happened to you. You are going to be OK though. I’m here to help you. The concepts in this book can help you tremendously as you take them in. I will be sharing some things that will help you make sense of it all. I have walked hundreds of people through similar situations. The main thing that you will need is a hungry, flexible and open mind and heart.

I will share some things that might sound crazy when you first hear them. They are concepts that will blow your mind and very possibly save your life! Make a commitment to hear me out. What I share with you might very well make you extremely angry when you first read these concepts. Just keep reading and keep thinking. I will make an overwhelmingly compelling case for the secret that I will share with you. Just know that you will get through this. I promise you that what happened will all make much more sense to you very soon. Everything that has happened in your life has a reason and it makes sense. I will prove this to you."

“The chief reason why marriage is rarely a success is that it is
contracted while the partners are insane.” ~Joseph Collins

"The way we re-create our childhood issues in our adult relationships is like “Déjà vu”—feeling like I’ve already done this once before. Webster’s New Collegiate Dictionary defines “déjà vu” as “already seen”, and as “something overly or unpleasantly familiar”. That is exactly what we discover when we put the pieces of an individual’s family history together as we study their family trees during assessment. It is almost spooky, how many issues get repeated from one generation to the next."

"My husband and I divorced over religious differences. He thought he was God, and I didn't." ~Author Unknown

Again, you can download the book for Free at I hope this book helps a lot of suffering people and saves thousands of marriages.

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Mark E. Smith, LCSW April 15, 2010 Myrtle Beach, South Carolina

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